• באיזה אופן מי שאינו מקיים מצוות אף שכר לימוד תורה אין לו אלא תורה
    פירש רש״י ואינו מקיים. ומשמע שהוא לא מקיים מצוות כלל והוא רק לומד תורה. אכן המאירי ביאר שמדובר במי שמתמיד ועוסק בתורה כל היום, ומיקל בעשיית המצוות מתוך עסקו בתורה, אפילו שכר תורה אין לו. והיינו שלא מדובר באחד שלא מקיים בכלל את המצוות, אלא שמתוך שהוא עסוק ושקוע כל כך בתורה זה גורם לו להקל בעשיית המצוות וגם בזה התחדש שאפילו שכר תורה אין לו.

    In What Case Does Someone Who Does Not Fulfill the Mitzvos Receive No Reward Even for Torah Study?

    Rashi explains, “and he does not fulfill them.” This implies that the person does not observe the mitzvos at all and only studies Torah.

    However, the Meiri explains that this refers to someone who diligently studies and occupies himself with Torah all day, but because of his involvement in Torah, he becomes lenient in actually performing the mitzvos. Such a person does not even receive the reward for his Torah study.

    In other words, this is not referring to someone who completely fails to observe the mitzvos. Rather, it refers to someone who is so occupied and immersed in Torah study that this causes him to become lax in performing the mitzvos. The novel teaching here is that even in such a case, he does not receive the reward for his Torah study.



  • From the wisdom of Rav Chaim of Volozhin (1749–1821) come words written more than two centuries ago that sound as though they could have been addressed directly to 2026. There is little need to elaborate. His words speak for themselves.

    This idea is expressed in the verse, “Do I not fill Heaven and earth?” (Yirmiyah 23:24), and most explicitly in, “Realize it today . . . Hashem is the Supreme Being in Heaven above and on the earth beneath—there is nothing else” (Devarim 4:39), and, “You are the ones who have been shown, so that you will know that Hashem is the Supreme Being, and there is none else beside Him” (Devarim 4:35).

    This means literally, that there is nothing in existence in all the worlds except Hashem’s absolute Oneness . . .

    We mentioned at the outset that the words of the Sages are compared to “glowing coal.” One should take care not to ponder and reflect excessively on subjects that should not be studied in depth, for it may be harmful. The subject [of Kabbalah] is meant only for a wise man who is capable of understanding it and will be inspired by it to pray with a pure heart. But delving deeply [into Kabbalah] is fraught with danger, as Sefer Yetzirah cautions: If your heart runs forward, go back to your place.

    I really should have restrained myself from discussing this topic altogether. The early authorities made it a point to conceal it, like the holy Rokeach who only spoke about Kabbalah in allusions and hidden references.

    On reflection, I concluded that their approach was the appropriate course to follow for their generation. But at the present time, we have not had a leading authority for a long time, and everyone lets his thoughts wander in whatever directions he pleases. What is worse, some people think that it (Kabbalah) is for everyone, and there are fools who say that pure G-dliness can be found everywhere and in everything. All their thoughts are focused on studying mysticism; even young boys are behaving according to their own understanding.

    How extremely careful one must be not to be swayed by such thoughts! One must guard himself against acting on the basis of [mystical] ideas, for this will do away with many fundamental principles of the Torah. One may easily become entangled in the snares of the yetzer hara. For example, it may convince him that it is permitted to meditate on the Torah in dirty alleyways, thinking that Hashem is present in all places.

    Yet our Sages spoke out emphatically against this, declaring that such a person does not have a share in the World to Come. The Gemara in Berachos 24b says that [a person who meditates on the Torah in dirty places] “has denigrated Hashem’s word” (Bamidbar 15:32), and the verse ends, “that person shall be utterly cut off [spiritually],” which is interpreted to mean “being cut off both in this world and in the World to Come.” There are many more errors that can result from following this way.

    These are the considerations that led me to discuss this topic. I want to caution people to avoid the errors that may result from it, and I want them to understand clearly the things the Sages alluded to.

    “For it is a time to act for Hashem.” (Tehillim 119:126)

    From the echoes of 1749 to 2026, the warning requires little commentary. The words stand on their own.



  • 1. Tznius — More Than Clothing

    The concept of tznius (צניעות) is much broader than modest clothing. Tznius is a way of life. A person does not deliberately display his physical appearance, wealth, possessions, intellectual abilities, Torah knowledge, spirituality, charitable giving, or accomplishments simply so that other people will recognize his greatness.

    A person may possess extraordinary qualities without advertising them. If the greatness is genuine, people will eventually recognize it themselves. The traditional approach is that something truly valuable does not require constant public presentation. This applies to clothing, speech, homes, cars, celebrations, vacations, charitable giving, and the general way a person presents himself to the world.

    2. Wealth Is Not Greatness

    The same principle should apply to financial success. A person may be extremely wealthy, but financial success demonstrates primarily that he succeeded financially. It does not automatically demonstrate greater Torah knowledge, wisdom, character, judgment, spirituality, or understanding of communal needs.

    The problem begins when wealth itself becomes confused with greatness. Because institutions need substantial financial support, major donors naturally receive recognition and access. Over time, however, there is a danger that financial importance becomes social importance and eventually is treated almost as personal greatness.

    3. The Historical Background

    Historically, many Jewish families arrived in America from poverty and from countries where Jews had faced severe economic, professional, and social restrictions. America provided opportunities that previous generations could hardly have imagined.

    Earlier generations frequently associated financial success with building something over many years—a business, profession, factory, distribution operation, or commercial enterprise. The modern economy has created additional paths in which enormous wealth can sometimes be accumulated much faster.

    4. The Character of Modern Orthodox Wealth

    In parts of the Orthodox community, some of the most visible substantial wealth has developed through real estate and healthcare-related businesses: multifamily and commercial properties, nursing homes, assisted living facilities, healthcare supplies and services, and businesses connected to Medicaid and Medicare reimbursement.

    There are certainly successful accounting firms, food distributors, IT companies, professional practices, service businesses, and other enterprises. But these generally represent a different type and scale of wealth from the fortunes that can sometimes be produced through large portfolios of leveraged real estate combined with healthcare operations.

    5. Ownership Rather Than Invention

    An important distinction is that much of this wealth does not necessarily come from manufacturing a new product or creating an original company comparable to Microsoft or Oracle. It frequently comes from acquiring and operating existing assets and businesses.

    A person acquires a multifamily property, nursing home, assisted-living facility, or another operating business. He puts together equity, obtains financing, receives the necessary licenses and approvals, works on the margins, refinances when possible, and then repeats the process.

    This requires business ability, relationships, risk tolerance, and execution. But economically it is different from inventing a new technology, manufacturing a new product, or creating an entirely new industry.

    6. The Power of Leverage

    The critical ingredient is often credit. Someone does not necessarily need enough money to purchase the entire asset. He needs sufficient equity to obtain control of an asset financed largely with other people’s money.

    Several people can pool relatively modest amounts of savings and use that equity as the foundation for a substantially larger acquisition. Bank loans, mortgages, private lenders, investors, refinancing, and other forms of credit can then multiply the purchasing power of the original capital.

    When values rise and the business performs well, leverage can create extraordinary wealth. When the assumptions are wrong, the same leverage can magnify losses. The highly successful people are extremely visible; the unsuccessful transactions are usually much less visible.

    7. Healthcare and the Appearance of Wealth

    Healthcare creates another potential complication. A nursing home or similar facility can generate substantial revenue even when its underlying profitability is limited. Ownership, management fees, salaries, real estate arrangements, financing, and reimbursement structures can make the economics complicated.

    This creates a danger when people focus on the amount of money flowing through a business rather than on its long-term economic strength. A person can appear extraordinarily successful because he controls large assets and receives substantial compensation while the underlying operation carries considerable debt or risk.

    That does not mean this describes healthcare ownership generally. Many operators build legitimate, durable businesses and provide necessary services. The point is that outsiders looking at visible wealth usually cannot distinguish between sustainable wealth and wealth built upon substantial leverage and risk.

    8. Cash Advances and High-Interest Lending

    Another modern path is merchant cash advances and other forms of expensive or high-risk commercial financing. Here again, credit becomes the product itself.

    Capital is assembled from investors or lenders and advanced to businesses at substantial cost. When successful, the returns can be significant. But these businesses can also raise serious questions about risk, business practices, treatment of borrowers, and the moral consequences of profiting from businesses already under financial pressure.

    For a young person primarily attracted by stories of people becoming wealthy quickly, the danger is that the question changes from “What useful business can I build?” to “What financial structure can make me rich fastest?”

    9. The Visibility Problem

    This is where the culture begins influencing everyone else.

    Suppose only a small percentage of people who enter highly leveraged real estate, healthcare, lending, or similar businesses eventually become extremely wealthy. Those few people become highly visible. Their houses are visible. Their cars are visible. Their vacations and celebrations are visible. Their charitable donations are announced. Their names appear on buildings.

    The many people who tried similar strategies without extraordinary success are largely invisible.

    The community therefore sees the winners much more clearly than the risks that produced them.

    10. Envy and Imitation

    Human beings naturally compare themselves with the people around them. When extraordinary wealth becomes highly visible, admiration can gradually become envy, and envy can become imitation.

    Young people begin asking why they should spend twenty or thirty years slowly building a conventional business when someone only a few years older appears to have accumulated tremendous wealth through several transactions.

    The temptation becomes to borrow more, leverage more, take larger risks, find investors, acquire another property, purchase another facility, refinance, and move quickly to the next transaction.

    11. The Moral Danger

    At this point the issue is no longer purely financial.

    If the objective becomes achieving the appearance and status of wealth as quickly as possible, a person may begin accepting risks and business practices he would previously have considered unacceptable. He may convince himself that everything is justified because everyone involved understands business and because the financial system permits the transaction.

    But when a highly leveraged business fails, the consequences do not necessarily disappear with the owner. Investors can lose money. Lenders can take losses. Vendors may remain unpaid. Employees can lose jobs. Borrowers can suffer. Families can be affected.

    The legal ability to structure a transaction does not by itself answer every moral question surrounding that transaction.

    12. From Exceptional Lifestyle to Community Standard

    The cultural consequences extend beyond the businessmen themselves.

    The lifestyles of a relatively small number of exceptionally wealthy families can gradually establish expectations for thousands of families whose financial circumstances are entirely different.

    Homes become larger. Cars become more expensive. Weddings become more elaborate. Vacations become expected. Clothing, schools, camps, restaurants, and celebrations move upward in price and expectation.

    What began as the lifestyle of the exceptionally wealthy gradually starts looking normal.

    13. The Pressure on Ordinary Families

    A person earning an ordinary professional or business income may then feel poor despite earning more than previous generations could have imagined.

    Families may feel pressure to maintain appearances for their children, shidduchim, schools, friends, neighbors, or social standing. They may spend money they do not have simply because the surrounding standard has changed.

    Something affordable to a multimillionaire can be financially destructive to an ordinary family.

    This is one of the unhealthy consequences of allowing exceptional wealth to define normal communal life.

    14. Returning to Tznius

    This brings the discussion back to tznius.

    Tznius does not require a successful person to pretend that he is poor. Neither wealth nor business success is inherently something to be ashamed of. Wealth can support families, Torah institutions, education, tzedakah, employment, and entire communities.

    The question is how wealth is carried.

    A person can possess tremendous wealth without making his wealth the center of his identity. He can give enormous amounts of tzedakah without needing everyone to know. He can own valuable things without turning those possessions into a public statement about his importance.

    The same principle applies to Torah knowledge and spirituality. Genuine greatness does not constantly announce itself.

    15. The Central Cultural Question

    The issue therefore is not whether wealthy people are good or bad, nor whether real estate, healthcare, financing, or lending are legitimate businesses. Wealth itself is a tool, and these industries can serve necessary economic and social purposes.

    The deeper question is what a Jewish community chooses to admire and imitate.

    When wealth becomes confused with greatness, people begin imitating the visible results without understanding the risks, circumstances, leverage, or luck behind them. Financial success becomes social status, social status produces envy, and envy encourages another generation to pursue the same appearance of success.

    A culture of tznius should work in the opposite direction. Wealth, Torah knowledge, intelligence, generosity, and accomplishment may all be genuine forms of blessing or achievement. But they do not have to be continuously displayed.

    If the greatness is real, people will discover it anyway.



  • The Torah repeatedly speaks about the גר — ger, usually translated as “stranger.” But this English translation can be misleading. In Torah law, not every foreigner, immigrant, or non-Jew is automatically the ger whom the Torah commands us to love or support.

    There are several distinct categories. A גר צדק — ger tzedek is a non-Jew who converts according to halachah and becomes fully Jewish. A גר תושב — ger toshav remains a non-Jew but receives a particular status within the Torah’s legal system. There is also the ordinary non-Jew who lives alongside a Jewish community, particularly in the Diaspora, toward whom Chazal established responsibilities based upon דרכי שלום — darkei shalom, the ways of peace.

    These distinctions are essential before using Biblical statements about the “stranger” as a basis for modern charitable policy.

    Part I — The Ger Toshav in the Torah System

    The Torah states in Vayikra 25:35:

    «וְכִי יָמוּךְ אָחִיךָ וּמָטָה יָדוֹ עִמָּךְ וְהֶחֱזַקְתָּ בּוֹ גֵּר וְתוֹשָׁב וָחַי עִמָּךְ»

    “If your brother becomes impoverished and his means fail with you, you shall strengthen him — the ger and the toshav — so that he may live with you.”

    The significant expression is:

    «וְהֶחֱזַקְתָּ בּוֹ»

    “You shall strengthen and support him.”

    The Torah is describing material assistance. But who is the גר תושב — ger toshav?

    Rashi on Vayikra 25:35 explains:

    «ואיזהו תושב? כל שקיבל עליו שלא לעבוד עבודה זרה ואוכל נבלות»

    “Who is a toshav? One who accepted upon himself not to worship idolatry, although he eats neveilah.”

    This individual has not converted. He remains a non-Jew, but he has rejected עבודה זרה — avodah zarah, idolatry.

    The Gemara in Avodah Zarah 64b asks:

    «איזהו גר תושב?»

    “What constitutes a ger toshav?”

    Rabbi Meir describes one who formally accepts upon himself not to worship idolatry. The חכמים — Chachamim define him as a non-Jew who accepts the שבע מצוות בני נח — Seven Noahide Commandments.

    These commandments prohibit idolatry, blasphemy, murder, forbidden sexual relationships, theft, and eating flesh taken from a living animal, and require the establishment of a system of justice.

    A ger toshav, therefore, is not simply any non-Jew living among Jews. It is a defined halachic category.

    The discussion in Avodah Zarah 64b–65a connects this status with:

    «להחיותו»

    “To sustain him.”

    This corresponds with the Torah’s words:

    «וְהֶחֱזַקְתָּ בּוֹ… וָחַי עִמָּךְ»

    “You shall support him… and he shall live with you.”

    The Torah Framework in Eretz Yisrael

    The Gemara in Arachin 29a states:

    «אין גר תושב נוהג אלא בזמן שהיובל נוהג»

    “The status of ger toshav applies only when Yovel is practiced.”

    Rambam codifies in Hilchos Avodah Zarah 10:6:

    «קיבל עליו שבע מצות הרי זה גר תושב»

    “If he accepted upon himself the Seven commandments, he is a ger toshav.”

    Rambam immediately adds:

    «ואין מקבלין גר תושב אלא בזמן שהיובל נוהג»

    “We accept a ger toshav only when Yovel is practiced.”

    The formal institution of גר תושב therefore belongs to a particular Torah legal framework in Eretz Yisrael, subject to conditions established by Chazal, including Yovel. It cannot simply be taken from that framework and applied indiscriminately to every non-Jew in every country and period.

    The existence of the modern State of Israel does not by itself establish these specific halachic conditions. Contemporary Jewish sovereignty alone does not restore Yovel or automatically recreate the formal institution of ger toshav described by Chazal.

    Loving the Ger — A Separate Mitzvah

    The Torah states in Devarim 10:19:

    «וַאֲהַבְתֶּם אֶת הַגֵּר»

    “You shall love the ger.”

    Rambam in Hilchos De’os 6:4 describes the subject of this special mitzvah as someone who:

    «בא ונכנס תחת כנפי השכינה»

    “Came and entered beneath the wings of the Shechinah.”

    This refers to the גר צדק — ger tzedek, the convert who has entered the Jewish people.

    Therefore, the special mitzvah of אהבת הגר — loving the ger should not be presented as though it establishes an identical special commandment toward every non-Jew or foreigner. Ger tzedek and ger toshav are separate halachic categories.

    Part II — Jews Living in the Diaspora

    A different question arises when Jews live outside Eretz Yisrael among a larger non-Jewish population and under a non-Jewish government.

    For centuries Jewish communities lived in Poland, Russia, Germany, France, North Africa, the Middle East, and elsewhere. They maintained their own communal institutions while living among surrounding populations.

    Here another principle becomes especially relevant:

    «דרכי שלום»

    Darkei shalom — the ways of peace.

    The Gemara in Gittin 61a states:

    «מפרנסים עניי נכרים עם עניי ישראל מפני דרכי שלום»

    “We provide sustenance for the non-Jewish poor together with the Jewish poor, because of the ways of peace.”

    The wording is noteworthy:

    «עם עניי ישראל»

    “Together with the Jewish poor.”

    The Gemara describes assistance to the surrounding non-Jewish poor in the context of Jewish communal assistance. Jewish charity retains its own structure and priorities, while the surrounding population is not simply ignored.

    The stated reason is מפני דרכי שלום — because of the ways of peace.

    This is not the institution of ger toshav. An ordinary non-Jew living alongside Jews does not first have to acquire ger toshav status before darkei shalom becomes relevant.

    Living Peacefully Among Other Peoples

    A Jewish community living as a minority cannot conduct its public life as though the surrounding society does not exist. If Jews visibly provide for their own poor while completely disregarding impoverished neighbors around them, this can create resentment and conflict.

    Historically, proper relations with surrounding populations and civil authorities were important to the stability of Jewish communal life. Darkei shalom provides a halachic framework for peaceful and responsible coexistence without abolishing the particular obligations Jews have toward their own families and communities.

    Purim — A Practical Example

    Purim provides a particularly visible example.

    One of its special mitzvos is מתנות לאביונים — matanos la’evyonim, gifts to the poor.

    At the same time, Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 694:3 rules:

    «במקום שנהגו ליתן אף לאינו יהודי נותנים»

    “In a place where it is customary to give even to a non-Jew, we give.”

    Consider a traditional Jewish community in Poland or Russia. Wealthier Jews distribute money and food on Purim while poor Jewish families receive assistance for their Purim needs. Completely excluding every impoverished non-Jewish neighbor from a highly visible distribution could produce unnecessary resentment.

    Appropriate assistance to the surrounding poor therefore serves דרכי שלום.

    This does not make the non-Jew an identical halachic recipient of מתנות לאביונים. The Jewish poor receive under the particular Purim mitzvah; assistance to surrounding non-Jewish poor rests upon a different halachic foundation.

    Likewise, the Gemara’s words מפרנסים עניי נכרים עם עניי ישראל do not themselves establish an equal division of charitable funds. The appropriate amount in a particular situation is a separate halachic question.

    Part III — Tzedakah and Modern Philanthropy

    The economic reality of modern Jewish life is often very different from that of Biblical times or pre-modern Europe.

    Historically, poverty frequently meant literal deprivation: insufficient bread, clothing, shoes, shelter, or other necessities. Today, especially in affluent communities, a family may own a home and appear respectable while still being unable to make ends meet. A parent may be unable to work, income may be insufficient for a large family, or ordinary necessary expenses may exceed what the household can reasonably afford.

    Such a family does not have to reach starvation before tzedakah becomes appropriate. Torah charity concerns maintaining people with dignity and meeting genuine needs, not merely rescuing them after complete destitution.

    This is also where tzedakah and modern philanthropy must be distinguished.

    Educational programs, outreach, publications, institutions, buildings, cultural projects, and other communal endeavors may accomplish considerable good. But a worthy project does not automatically have the same charitable priority as a struggling family requiring food, clothing, housing, or other genuine necessities.

    Torah law establishes priorities. Needy relatives have particular claims; local poor have priority in the established halachic order; and direct assistance to families in genuine need occupies a fundamental place in tzedakah. The precise ordering can depend on circumstances and should not be reduced to a slogan where substantial sums are involved.

    Nor does supporting a struggling family mean financing unlimited luxury. The issue is genuine need and dignified maintenance, not underwriting every desired standard of consumption.

    A person blessed with considerable resources may be able to fulfill these responsibilities and still support educational institutions, communal projects, and other valuable causes. The distinction becomes critical when resources are limited. Basic human need cannot automatically be displaced merely because another philanthropic project is larger, more prestigious, or more visible.

    Conclusion — Giving According to Torah Priorities

    The sources describe several different obligations, not one universal category of “charity.”

    A גר צדק is a convert and is included in the Torah’s special commandment concerning love of the ger. A גר תושב is a distinct non-Jewish status within the Torah’s legal framework, connected by Chazal with acceptance of fundamental Noahide obligations and with להחיותו — sustaining him. Jews living among non-Jews also have obligations of דרכי שלום, including appropriate concern for surrounding non-Jewish poor.

    At the same time, ordinary צדקה retains its priorities: relatives, local needs, and families lacking genuine necessities cannot be forgotten in favor of more distant or prestigious philanthropy.

    The principle is not indiscriminate giving, nor is it isolation from everyone outside one’s community. It is responsible giving according to the distinctions and priorities established by Torah law—meeting genuine need close to home, maintaining peaceful relations with the surrounding society, and using additional resources for the broader worthy causes a person is able to support.



  • 1. Artificial intelligence, as generally described in computer science and academic literature, refers to computer systems capable of performing tasks associated with human intelligence, such as recognizing patterns, learning from data, processing language, solving problems, making predictions, and generating new outputs. Modern AI operates through mathematical models and algorithms trained on enormous quantities of data. Although it can produce something that appears new, it does so by processing learned relationships and patterns. It does not possess human consciousness, moral responsibility, an independently chosen purpose, or בחירה חפשית (free choice).

    2. This creates an interesting comparison with human beings. AI begins with an architecture, training data, mathematical rules, and learned patterns that influence what it will produce. Human beings are fundamentally different because they possess consciousness and free choice, yet much of human behavior is also shaped by accumulated information and repetition. From childhood, a person absorbs what he sees and hears from parents, teachers, friends, society, media, and culture. These experiences establish patterns that increasingly influence how he thinks and behaves.

    3. The Torah introduces a radically different framework for the Jewish nation. Instead of allowing sight, hearing, culture, instinct, and social convention alone to determine the patterns of life, the Jew is given תורה שבכתב (Written Torah) and תורה שבעל פה (Oral Torah). They establish detailed rules governing business, marriage, family, food, charity, courts, prayer, Shabbos, holidays, interpersonal conduct, and man’s relationship with Hashem. Torah therefore supplies an external framework within which the Jew can deliberately construct his life rather than simply becoming the product of whatever environment happens to surround him.

    4. The comparison to AI is therefore useful but limited. An AI system operates within an established architecture containing rules, objectives, training, and boundaries. Torah also provides an established structure, but a Jew is not an algorithm. He can obey the Torah, struggle with it, violate it, return to it, and perform תשובה (repentance). The existence of בחירה חפשית is precisely what separates moral human development from computational pattern recognition.

    5. פרעה (Pharaoh) in ספר שמות (Sefer Shemos) illustrates another dimension of this principle. Pharaoh repeatedly follows the same course until the Torah describes the strengthening and hardening of his heart. A profound idea emerges: although a human being possesses free choice, repeated choices can create such powerful behavioral patterns that the person’s future behavior becomes increasingly predictable.

    6. In mathematical language, the probability of choosing differently can become progressively smaller without necessarily becoming zero. A person who has performed the same behavior hundreds or thousands of times has created enormous internal resistance to changing direction. תשובה remains possible, but possibility and probability are not the same thing. The door can remain open even when the likelihood of a person choosing to walk through it has become extremely small.

    7. The same principle works positively. When a person repeatedly keeps שבת (Shabbos), learns תורה (Torah), performs מצוות (mitzvos), gives צדקה (tzedakah), eats כשר (kosher), davens, and surrounds himself with people committed to the same values, those actions gradually establish the pattern of his life. What originally required a difficult conscious decision can eventually become his natural response.

    8. This is one of the practical strengths of an Orthodox Torah lifestyle. It does not require a person to reinvent his beliefs and make every fundamental decision from the beginning each morning. Torah creates repeated actions, schedules, obligations, boundaries, family structures, and communal institutions. Free choice remains, but the person has used his previous choices to create conditions that make future Torah-consistent choices more probable.

    9. Humanity as a whole also develops patterns. Without accepting Torah as the governing framework, however, those patterns are largely produced by family, society, culture, personal experience, sight, hearing, desires, education, and prevailing ideas. Other religions likewise create systems of beliefs, rituals, discipline, and behavioral patterns. From the Torah perspective, the distinctive Jewish claim is that Torah is not merely a religious culture developed by human beings, but the revealed framework through which Hashem instructed the Jewish nation how to live and understand its purpose.

    10. There is therefore a paradox within free choice itself. Human greatness depends upon בחירה חפשית, yet one of the wisest uses of free choice is deliberately creating good patterns so that every decision does not have to be fought again from the beginning. A person uses today’s free choice to influence tomorrow’s probability. Repeated destructive choices make destructive behavior increasingly natural; repeated good choices make Torah behavior increasingly natural.

    11. Being born into a stable Torah life—or discovering Torah and successfully constructing such a life—can therefore be understood as an extraordinary gift from Hashem. A person receives not merely individual commandments but an entire structure capable of directing his habits, priorities, relationships, time, money, family, and ultimately his understanding of why he exists.

    12. AI gives modern man a striking demonstration of the enormous power of accumulated information and repeated patterns. But Torah introduces the element that an algorithm does not possess: the human being can use בחירה חפשית to decide which patterns he will strengthen. Over a lifetime, those repeated choices increasingly form the person himself. The objective is not to eliminate free choice or become mechanically programmed. It is to use the gift of free choice consistently enough that living according to Torah becomes increasingly natural while the responsibility and possibility of choosing otherwise always remain.


  • Part 1A —

    מגן אברהם הלכות סוכה סימן תרל״ז ס״ק ג׳

    מבואר הא דנוהגים לעשות סוכה בחו״ל, ואילו בארץ שאינם מחויבים בזה דיני עבדים, גם למ״ד גזל עכו״ם אסור — לא שרי אלא פסול של מצוה הבא בעבירה.

    אולם מביא דברי היראים דאפילו למ״ד גזל עכו״ם מותר, מ״מ לא היו לכם.

    וכפי הנראה קשה לרש״י הנ״ל דהקרקע הרי אינו שלו, ע״כ לא נתן להם הקרקע בקנין. ע״כ.

    מחצית השקל ד״ה ואע״ג

    והא דנוהגים דברי המגן אברהם, דרש״י לטעמיה במס׳ סנהדרין (והוא לעיל) דגזל עכו״ם הוא רק מדרבנן, ולכן ליכא פסול מצוה הבא בעבירה.

    אמנם מקשה לדעת הרמב״ם דגזל עכו״ם אסור מן התורה, שפיר איכא פסול מצוה הבא בעבירה.

    ואפילו לדעת רש״י דליכא פסול מצוה הבא בעבירה, מ״מ יש איסור גזל ונשאר בצ״ע.

    Part 1B — Understanding the Issue

    The discussion concerns a סוכה ברשות הרבים — a sukkah erected on public property.

    The Rema distinguishes between building such a sukkah לכתחילה and its status בדיעבד. Even though one should not initially erect a sukkah on public property without permission, nevertheless:

    מיהו בדיעבד יצא — after the fact, one fulfills the mitzvah.

    The Magen Avraham raises a deeper issue. Public property belongs to and is available for the use of the entire public. Even if some people consent to the sukkah being there, that does not necessarily establish permission from everyone who possesses a right to use that property.

    This raises the question of גזל — unauthorized use of another’s property, as well as the concept of מצוה הבאה בעבירה — performing a mitzvah through an aveirah.

    The Machatzis HaShekel discusses the distinction between the positions of Rashi and the Rambam concerning גזל עכו״ם. Even where there may not be a technical פסול of מצוה הבאה בעבירה, the underlying איסור גזל can still remain.

    This produces an important distinction: a sukkah may possibly remain technically kosher בדיעבד, while the question of whether one may recite a ברכה in that sukkah remains separate.

    Part 2 — The Modern Restaurant Sukkah

    This discussion creates a very practical modern question.

    A restaurant builds a sukkah outside its establishment during Sukkos. However, instead of placing the sukkah entirely on its own property, it puts the sukkah on a public sidewalk or city street.

    Assume that the restaurant has no permit and has received no permission from the municipality to occupy that public space.

    This is not merely a theoretical violation. The sukkah may occupy part of the sidewalk that pedestrians ordinarily use. People may be forced to walk around it, the available sidewalk may become narrower, and some members of the public may actually be annoyed that public property has been taken over for the private commercial benefit of a restaurant.

    A customer now comes to this restaurant during Chol HaMoed and wants to eat a meal in the sukkah.

    The first question is straightforward: Is the sukkah itself kosher?

    There is room to argue from the Rema that although the sukkah should never have been erected there לכתחילה, nevertheless בדיעבד יצא. Its unauthorized location does not necessarily mean that the physical sukkah becomes completely invalid.

    But that leads to a second and more difficult question:

    Can the customer make the ברכה of לישב בסוכה?

    That question is not necessarily answered simply by declaring the sukkah kosher בדיעבד.

    The Magen Avraham’s discussion suggests that כשרות הסוכה and ברכת לישב בסוכה must be considered separately. If the sukkah occupies קרקע של רבים — property belonging to the public without authorization, there may remain an איסור connected with using that property even though the sukkah itself is technically sufficient for the mitzvah.

    The restaurant case arguably sharpens the issue. The restaurant is not simply using an empty area for a temporary private sukkah. It is a commercial establishment occupying public property for its own business, potentially at the actual expense and inconvenience of the people for whom the sidewalk was created.

    Therefore, the central שאלה is not merely:

    “Is this a kosher sukkah?”

    The more precise question is:

    If a restaurant erects a sukkah on a public sidewalk or street without municipal permission, and the sukkah interferes with the public’s use of that property, may a customer knowingly sit and eat there and recite לישב בסוכה?

    Perhaps one could argue that he fulfills the mitzvah בדיעבד. But does that automatically give him the right to make a ברכה?

    That is precisely where the distinction becomes significant:

    כשרות הסוכה בדיעבד לחוד — וברכת לישב בסוכה לחוד.

    The sukkah may be valid enough to fulfill the mitzvah, while the permissibility of making the ברכה of לישב בסוכה may remain an entirely separate halachic question.


  • The Chovos HaLevavos, in The Gate of Self-Accounting, teaches that a person must regularly examine his relationship with Hashem. The proper relationship is that of a servant to his Master. A servant understands that what he possesses comes from his master and therefore asks what is expected of him in return.
    A person should recognize that Hashem’s kindness toward him never stops. His life, health, body, intelligence, livelihood, abilities, and understanding are all continuously provided by the Creator. Hashem did not place man into the world helpless; He gave him wisdom and understanding so that he could manage his life and, more importantly, recognize his obligations toward his Creator.
    David HaMelech expresses this:
    “עַבְדְּךָ אָנִי הֲבִינֵנִי וְאֵדְעָה עֵדֹתֶיךָ”
    “I am Your servant; grant me understanding, that I might know Your testimonies.”
    — Tehillim 119:125
    The Chovos HaLevavos explains that even our freedom of choice is part of this relationship. Hashem gives a person control over his limbs and thoughts and places within him both the Yetzer Tov — יצר טוב and Yetzer Hara — יצר הרע. Torah then teaches him which choices bring him closer to Hashem and which take him away.
    Self-accounting therefore means asking not only, “What have I done wrong?” but something deeper:
    “What am I doing with everything Hashem has entrusted to me?”
    The same principle explains the special position of Klal Yisrael. The Torah says:
    “וַה׳ הֶאֱמִירְךָ הַיּוֹם לִהְיוֹת לוֹ לְעַם סְגֻלָּה”
    “Hashem has singled you out today to be His special people.”
    — Devarim 26:18
    The Chovos HaLevavos explains this through the relationship between a master and his servant. The greater the master and the closer the servant is to him, the greater the distinction of that servant. Israel’s special status therefore comes specifically from its closeness to Hashem and its unique dedication to His service.
    This is why Tanach calls us Hashem’s people, Hashem’s servants, Hashem’s Kohanim, and Hashem’s children. These are not simply titles of honor. They describe a relationship that carries responsibility.
    The closer the relationship, the greater the obligation.
    To be עבד ה׳ — a servant of Hashem means recognizing that what we possess was given to us for a purpose. Our intelligence, body, possessions, time, and freedom of choice are gifts, but they are also responsibilities.
    The ultimate self-accounting is therefore:
    If everything I have comes from Hashem, am I using what He has given me in the service of the One who gave it?


  • A person must never build himself up by degrading someone else:
    אַל תִּתְכַּבֵּד בִּקְלוֹן חֲבֵירְךָ
    “Do not elevate yourself through the degradation of your fellow.”
    This establishes the foundation. Rebuke is not supposed to be an instrument for asserting superiority. The purpose is correction, not humiliation.
    The Sefer HaYirah then warns against physical aggression. A person should not raise his hand to strike another. It cites the Torah’s description of the man who merely raised his hand against another Jew:
    רָשָׁע, לָמָּה תַכֶּה רֵעֶךָ
    “Wicked one, why would you strike your fellow?”
    — Shemos 2:13
    The person is called רָשָׁע — wicked even before the blow is actually delivered. The warning is therefore not merely against injury; the very willingness to use violence against another person is treated with severity.
    Rebuke Must Begin Privately
    When correction is necessary, Sefer HaYirah gives a clear first rule:
    אִם תּוֹכִיחַ אֶת חֲבֵירְךָ, אַל תּוֹכִיחֶנּוּ וְתַלְבִּין פָּנָיו, אֲבָל תּוֹכִיחֶנּוּ בַּסֵּתֶר וַאֲפִילוּ מֵאָה פְּעָמִים.
    “If you rebuke your fellow, do not rebuke him in a manner that puts him to shame. Rather, rebuke him privately, even a hundred times.”
    The source cited is Talmud, Arachin 16b.
    The initial approach is therefore patience and privacy. Even repeated wrongdoing does not immediately justify public embarrassment.
    The Severity of Public Humiliation
    Sefer HaYirah goes further:
    אַל תַלְבִּין פְּנֵי חֲבֵירְךָ בָּרַבִּים.
    “Do not whiten your fellow’s face in public.”
    Public humiliation is compared to spilling blood. When a person is deeply embarrassed, the redness drains from his face and it becomes pale. The Gemara therefore treats הַלְבָּנַת פָּנִים — whitening another person’s face as an extraordinarily serious matter.
    The Sefer HaYirah cites Talmud, Berachos 43b, which teaches that it would be preferable for a person to throw himself into a fiery furnace rather than publicly humiliate another person.
    This makes the ordinary rule unmistakable: even when rebuke is justified, humiliation is not automatically justified.
    But There Is a Limit
    The next passage introduces an important qualification.
    If a person has been strongly rebuked privately several times and continually refuses to accept correction, Sefer HaYirah states that it may then become permissible to shame him, oppose him, and pursue the matter until he accepts the rebuke.
    This is a very different situation from someone immediately attacking or humiliating another person in the name of “telling him the truth.”
    There is an order:
    First comes private rebuke. Then repeated private rebuke. Only after repeated refusal does the possibility of stronger public measures arise.
    Sefer HaYirah adds that someone who is capable of rebuking a person committing a transgression but remains silent may himself bear responsibility for that transgression. If he properly gives rebuke, however, he saves himself from that responsibility.
    The Balance
    These passages create two obligations that must exist together.
    A person may not remain indifferent to wrongdoing when he has a genuine responsibility and ability to intervene. At the same time, the mitzvah of rebuke does not provide an unrestricted license to embarrass people.
    The starting point is בַּסֵּתֶר — in private.
    The goal is not victory, revenge, humiliation, or demonstrating one’s own righteousness. The goal is to bring about correction while protecting the dignity of another Jew for as long as that remains possible.
    Only when private rebuke has repeatedly failed does Sefer HaYirah describe a different and considerably stronger response.



  • 1. There is a fundamental confusion in the modern discussion about Judaism and the State of Israel. Because Jewish political circumstances changed dramatically over thousands of years, people assume that Judaism itself changed with them.

    2. It did not.

    3. The Torah remained the same. What changed were the circumstances in which particular Torah laws could be applied.

    4. Understanding this distinction is essential to understanding Jewish history, exile, Jewish sovereignty, self-defense, and the modern State of Israel.

    Part I: A Torah Nation in the Land of Israel

    5. The first period begins with יציאת מצרים — the Exodus from Egypt.

    6. The Jewish people emerged from Egypt not simply as individuals sharing a religion, but as a nation under the authority of Gd and the Torah. After Sinai and forty years in the wilderness, they entered ארץ ישראל — the Land of Israel.

    7. Biblical Jewish national existence was fundamentally different from the modern concept of a secular nation-state.

    8. There was land, national leadership, Torah courts, laws governing national affairs and warfare, the בית המקדש — Temple — and commandments specifically connected to the Land.

    9. During the periods of the First and Second Temples, many Torah laws operated within institutions that no longer exist today.

    10. Some commandments required residence in the Land. Others required the בית המקדש, the Sanhedrin, properly constituted Jewish courts, national authority, or other specific halachic conditions.

    11. The Torah also contains severe laws concerning עבודה זרה — idolatry — warfare, capital punishment, and particular ancient nations.

    12. These were never simply licenses allowing an individual Jew to decide whom to punish, attack, expel, or kill. They existed within a detailed Torah judicial and national structure.

    Part II: Destruction and Exile

    13. The Torah itself never presented Jewish possession of the Land as an unconditional political entitlement.

    14. The Torah and the Prophets repeatedly warned that abandoning the covenant could eventually result in national catastrophe and exile.

    15. Both Temples were destroyed. Jewish sovereignty disappeared, and the overwhelming majority of the Jewish people eventually lived outside the Land.

    16. But the Torah did not disappear with Jewish sovereignty.

    17. One of the extraordinary accomplishments of the following centuries was the preservation, clarification, transmission, and application of תורה שבכתב — the Written Torah — together with תורה שבעל פה — the Oral Torah.

    18. Halacha preserved precisely what Jews remained obligated to practice and what could no longer be practiced without the Temple, Sanhedrin, Jewish sovereignty, or other institutions required by Torah law.

    19. A Jew living in Germany or Hungary centuries ago remained governed by exactly the same Torah as his ancestors.

    20. He could keep Shabbos, observe kashrus, study Torah, give tzedakah, establish Jewish communal institutions, marry according to Jewish law, and fulfill the commandments applicable to his circumstances.

    21. But he could not simply establish biblical criminal courts, declare biblical national wars, or exercise governmental Torah powers for which the required institutions no longer existed.

    22. Judaism had not changed. The circumstances of Jewish existence had changed.

    Jews Never Completely Disappeared From the Land

    23. The Jewish relationship with ארץ ישראל did not suddenly restart with modern Zionism.

    24. Jewish communities continued to exist in the Land throughout the centuries of exile. Their numbers fluctuated enormously because of war, persecution, disease, economic circumstances, expulsions, immigration, and changing rulers. At certain times communities were substantial; at other times they were extremely small.

    25. The precise number is secondary to the larger point. Jewish attachment to the Land never disappeared simply because Jewish political sovereignty disappeared.

    26. Jews prayed toward Jerusalem. They mentioned Jerusalem and ציון — Zion — continuously in their prayers. They mourned the destruction of the בית המקדש. Jews traveled to the Land and settled there whenever circumstances allowed.

    27. There is therefore an important difference between Jewish presence and attachment to the Land and Jewish political sovereignty over the Land.

    28. The first continued throughout exile. The second disappeared.

    1948: Political Sovereignty, Not Biblical Sovereignty

    29. The establishment of the modern State of Israel in 1948 dramatically changed Jewish political circumstances.

    30. For the first time in many centuries, millions of Jews would eventually live within a sovereign state possessing a government, army, police, borders, intelligence services, taxation system, and the practical ability to defend a large Jewish population.

    31. That was an enormous historical and practical development. But the nature of that development must be understood correctly.

    32. One useful analogy is to think of a modern state, in a limited sense, as a very large corporation. Imagine Israel as something like IBM. A successful corporation must manage itself, develop its products, market itself, attract capital, protect its assets, plan for the future, and produce value for those it serves. A successful state likewise develops its economy, maintains infrastructure, protects its territory, builds international relationships, and attempts to provide security and prosperity for its citizens.

    33. In this respect Israel belongs to the same modern political world as Sweden, Norway, the United States, or other sovereign countries. Different countries use different economic systems and possess different resources, but each attempts to manage its national assets and institutions for its population.

    34. Israel therefore functions first as a sovereign political and legal entity. Its government has direct governmental obligations toward its citizens and residents under its jurisdiction.

    35. A Jew living in New York does not receive Israeli voting rights, ordinary Israeli government benefits, police protection, or the normal rights of Israeli citizenship merely because he is Jewish. His ordinary civil protection comes from the United States. Likewise, a Jew living in London, Paris, or Toronto normally lives under the civil authority and protection of the country in which he resides.

    36. Israel certainly has historical connections with Diaspora Jews and may assist Jewish communities abroad. But that is different from the ordinary legal relationship between a government and its citizens.

    37. This distinction is essential. Israel can properly be described historically and politically as a Jewish state or as a state created as a national home for the Jewish people. But that does not automatically make it a Torah Jewish state.

    38. It is more accurate for the purpose of this discussion to distinguish between a modern state associated with and created principally for the Jewish people and the Torah nation described in Tanach.

    39. The first is a modern political and legal entity. The second was a covenantal national structure governed through institutions established by Torah.

    40. The modern State of Israel is not the twelve tribes living within the Torah governmental structure of ancient Israel.

    41. Its citizens include Jews and non-Jews. Its non-Jewish citizens possess citizenship and civil rights. Its parliament, courts, army, police, bureaucracy, and other institutions operate principally as institutions of a contemporary nation-state.

    42. The establishment of that state did not automatically recreate the Sanhedrin, the Davidic monarchy, the בית המקדש, prophecy, or the judicial structure necessary for many biblical national laws.

    43. A modern government cannot simply declare those institutions restored because Jews again possess political sovereignty.

    The Contradiction of Secular Biblical Sovereignty

    44. Here lies one of the great contradictions in the modern argument concerning the State of Israel.

    45. The ancient Jewish relationship with ארץ ישראל described in Tanach belongs to the history of a people whose national existence was inseparable from Torah.

    46. Biblical Israel was not a secular state populated by people who happened to have Jewish ancestry. Its national story was built around the ברית — covenant — between Gd and the Jewish people, Torah law, prophets, the בית המקדש, and Divine Providence.

    47. Yet many of the founders of modern political Zionism were secular Jews influenced by nationalism, socialism, liberalism, capitalism, and other modern political movements. They were not attempting to restore the complete Torah society described in Tanach.

    48. Nevertheless, one of the most powerful arguments for modern Jewish sovereignty looks backward thousands of years: “This was our land. Our ancestors lived here. We are returning home.”

    49. That creates a theological contradiction when biblical history is used selectively.

    50. If the biblical relationship between the Jewish people and the Land is invoked as an absolute religious title to the territory, the covenant surrounding that relationship cannot simply be removed from the discussion.

    51. One cannot invoke יהושע — Joshua — while ignoring the Divine command under which יהושע acted.

    52. One cannot invoke King David while removing the Torah structure surrounding David’s kingdom.

    53. One cannot claim the biblical inheritance as absolute religious authority while simultaneously treating the biblical covenant governing that inheritance as irrelevant.

    The Conquest of Joshua Was Not Ordinary Nationalism

    54. ספר יהושע — the Book of Joshua — illustrates the difference.

    55. יהושע did not study ancient history, determine that his ancestors had once lived in the Land, organize an army, and independently decide that this gave him authority to conquer it.

    56. The biblical account describes something entirely different.

    57. The conquest occurred following the miraculous Exodus from Egypt, revelation at Sinai, Moshe’s leadership, forty years in the wilderness, explicit Divine commands, prophecy, and repeated supernatural manifestations of Divine Providence.

    58. The authority came from Gd within the biblical Torah system.

    59. Remove those elements and one has removed the very framework through which the biblical conquest was authorized.

    60. Modern nationalism and biblical conquest are therefore not interchangeable concepts.

    Orthodox Judaism and the Modern State

    61. There are Orthodox authorities who see particular religious significance and Divine Providence in the return of large numbers of Jews to ארץ ישראל and the establishment of Jewish political sovereignty. Other Orthodox authorities understand the State very differently.

    62. But seeing Divine Providence in a historical event is not the same as granting individuals the authority to recreate biblical warfare.

    63. The existence of a Jewish government does not transform an ordinary Jew, soldier, politician, or prime minister into יהושע, King David, the Sanhedrin, or a biblical Torah court.

    64. Nor does historical attachment to a particular territory, standing alone, give an individual the right to take another human life merely to acquire that territory.

    65. Historical land claims and preservation of human life are two separate questions.

    Pikuach Nefesh Did Not Begin in 1948

    66. The clearest example is פיקוח נפש — preservation of human life.

    67. Suppose a Jew suffers a serious medical emergency on Shabbos.

    68. Shabbos is one of the foundations of Jewish existence. Nevertheless, when human life is genuinely endangered, Shabbos is suspended to perform what is necessary to save that life.

    69. Where does this law apply? Everywhere.

    70. The Jew living in medieval Germany was governed by it. The Jew living in Hungary was governed by it. The Jew living in Baltimore is governed by it. The Jew living in Jerusalem is governed by it.

    71. Geography does not create פיקוח נפש. A Jewish government does not create it. Political sovereignty does not create it.

    72. The Torah creates it.

    73. The same principle applies when Jews face a genuine threat of deadly attack.

    74. Halacha does not necessarily require a person to wait until a murderer has already succeeded before taking protective action. When a sufficiently serious danger to life exists, preventative measures necessary to protect life may be permitted or required.

    75. If protecting life requires actions normally prohibited on Shabbos, Shabbos may be suspended because of פיקוח נפש.

    76. Nothing about this principle began in 1948.

    What Changed Was Capability

    77. This explains what actually changed with modern Jewish sovereignty.

    78. A Jewish community living under a foreign government might have possessed almost no ability to defend itself. It depended upon the police, army, laws, and goodwill of whatever government controlled that territory.

    79. Sometimes that protection existed. Sometimes it catastrophically failed.

    80. The modern State of Israel gave its population something profoundly different: organized governmental, military, police, and intelligence capabilities capable of defending millions of people.

    81. That is an enormous practical difference.

    82. But it is a difference in יכולת — capability, not a change in Torah.

    83. The State did not invent the Jewish obligation to preserve life. It provided organized governmental means through which its population could protect itself.

    Land and Life Are Two Different Questions

    84. This distinction becomes especially important in discussions of military action.

    85. There is a fundamental difference between saying, “Human beings are in mortal danger and must be protected,” and saying, “This territory historically belonged to the Jewish people, therefore human life may be taken merely in order to possess it.”

    86. These are not the same argument.

    87. Protecting people from murder is one question. Acquiring territory because of a biblical or historical claim is another.

    88. If military action is genuinely necessary to protect people from a deadly attack, its justification can rest upon the obligation to preserve life and defend people from danger.

    89. That principle exists whether the endangered Jew lives under a Jewish government or a non-Jewish government.

    90. A secular incorporated state does not create a new Torah principle simply because a large part of its population is Jewish.

    The Palestinian Question

    91. This distinction is especially important when discussing Palestinians and the West Bank.

    92. The Israeli-Palestinian conflict involves competing populations, national aspirations, territorial claims, security concerns, terrorism, settlements, borders, political sovereignty, and decades of political decisions.

    93. Jews and Arabs lived alongside one another in the territories after 1967 under circumstances that changed substantially over the following decades. The Intifadas, terrorism, Israeli military responses, Palestinian nationalism, settlement expansion, failed negotiations, and competing political ambitions fundamentally altered those relationships.

    94. Whatever political solution one supports, these questions should not simply be reduced to: “The Torah says Jews possessed this territory thousands of years ago, therefore biblical laws of conquest operate today.”

    95. That conclusion does not automatically follow.

    96. Territorial and national conflicts occur throughout human history. Irish and British history provides one example. Russians and Ukrainians living across changing political boundaries provide another. Different peoples can inhabit the same geographical region while maintaining conflicting historical claims and national aspirations.

    97. These become questions of sovereignty, borders, government, security, and political power.

    98. The presence of Jews does not automatically transform such a political conflict into a biblical Torah war.

    99. At the same time, when Jews face an actual danger to life, the question changes. Protection from terrorism, invasion, murder, or another genuine deadly threat concerns preservation of life.

    100. The two questions must not be confused.

    Political Sovereignty Is Not Torah Sovereignty

    101. A state can possess political sovereignty without possessing biblical Torah sovereignty.

    102. Israel can maintain borders, collect taxes, issue passports, maintain an army, arrest criminals, defend its citizens, negotiate treaties, develop its economy, and conduct the ordinary functions performed by other sovereign governments.

    103. Those powers arise from the practical reality of modern political sovereignty.

    104. They should not automatically be confused with the Torah authority exercised within biblical Jewish national life.

    If Biblical Jewish Government Returns

    105. According to the theological framework developed here, if a future era arrives in which Gd authentically restores the institutions and Divine authority necessary for biblical Jewish national life, then the Torah laws applicable to those restored circumstances will once again operate within their proper framework.

    106. That would not mean Judaism had changed again.

    107. It would mean the circumstances had changed again.

    108. The commandments did not disappear during exile. The conditions necessary for exercising particular national commandments disappeared.

    109. If those conditions are authentically restored through the Torah’s own framework, the applicable laws would again operate according to legitimate Torah authority.

    110. Individuals cannot create that authority themselves simply because they possess political power.

    One Torah, Different Circumstances

    111. This brings the entire history together.

    112. There was a period when the Jewish people existed as a Torah nation possessing institutions through which national Torah law could operate.

    113. There followed a long period during which Jews lived throughout the Diaspora without those institutions.

    114. Throughout those centuries, Jews continued living according to the same Torah.

    115. Jewish communities also continued living in ארץ ישראל, sometimes in larger numbers and sometimes in tiny communities. Jewish religious attachment to the Land never disappeared.

    116. Then, in 1948, Jewish political circumstances changed dramatically.

    117. A modern sovereign state was established. Eventually millions of Jews lived under a government possessing the ability to defend them.

    118. That changed Jewish political power. It changed Jewish military capability. It changed the ability of Jews living within that political entity to organize collectively for physical protection.

    119. It did not change the Torah.

    120. The Jew in Germany, the Jew in Hungary, the Jew in Baltimore, and the Jew in Jerusalem remain governed by the same fundamental Torah.

    121. If life is endangered, פיקוח נפש applies.

    122. If Shabbos must be suspended to save life, Shabbos is suspended.

    123. If people face a genuine deadly attack, the Torah permits or requires appropriate protection according to halacha.

    124. But possessing a parliament, army, flag, borders, successful economy, and internationally recognized government does not by itself restore the Sanhedrin, the Temple, prophecy, the Davidic monarchy, or the biblical institutions governing Jewish national warfare.

    125. That is the distinction that must remain clear: Jewish historical attachment is not the same as modern political sovereignty. Modern political sovereignty is not the same as biblical Torah sovereignty. Acquiring territory is not the same as protecting human life.

    126. The State of Israel may be a powerful and successful modern state associated with the Jewish people. That is a political and historical reality. It is not, merely because Jews established and govern it, the restoration of the Tora

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    The Purpose of the Jew in the Diaspora

    1. My personal understanding of the purpose of the Jew during the last 2,000 years begins with a simple historical reality: the Jewish people lived primarily as a homeless and stateless nation. By “homeless,” I do not mean that Jews were constantly wandering or that they could not remain in one country for generations. A Jewish community could live in the same country for 200, 300, or even 500 years and establish homes, businesses, synagogues, schools, cemeteries, and deep local roots. Yet Jewish history repeatedly demonstrated that such permanence could disappear. Large Jewish populations were expelled, persecuted, massacred, forcibly converted, or compelled to migrate from one part of Europe to another, throughout North Africa, and across the Middle East. There were exceptional communities with extraordinarily long continuity, but the broader historical experience was one of mobility and insecurity. A country could be home for centuries without becoming the permanent national home of the Jewish people. That is what I mean by the Jewish condition of being homeless and stateless throughout the long exile. Even today, I do not view the modern State of Israel as defining the religious purpose of the Jewish people. It is a sovereign state and a refuge for Jews, but statehood itself does not define Judaism or Jewish values.

    2. The purpose of the individual Jew is the preservation of the kernel of Torah and mitzvos — תורה ומצוות. A Jew may preserve that inheritance because he believes in Gd, believes in Torah, follows the traditions of his parents and family, or understands himself as part of the historical continuity of the Jewish people.

    3. At the same time, every individual possesses free choice — בחירה חופשית. Throughout the long exile, Jews converted to Christianity or Islam, assimilated into surrounding societies, or simply stopped identifying themselves with Judaism. Beginning especially with emancipation in Europe and the development of Reform and Conservative Judaism, increasing numbers of Jews created different relationships with traditional Torah observance.

    4. This raises an important question: what does Jewish identity mean when a person’s maternal ancestry may be entirely Jewish while Torah and mitzvos have played almost no role in the family’s life for generations?

    5. From a traditional Torah perspective, if such a person is Jewish according to halacha — הלכה, he remains a Jew. But that does not mean that everything he chooses to believe, finance, support, or accomplish becomes an expression of Judaism merely because a Jew is doing it.

    6. This distinction has become particularly important over the last century. Many people who are Jewish by birth have become, culturally and practically, citizens of the broader world. They may devote themselves to whatever causes they consider worthwhile. A wealthy Jew may donate hundreds of millions of dollars to universities, museums, medical research, environmental causes, endangered animals, the arts, or countless other causes.

    7. He is free to do so. It is his personal choice. But the fact that the donor happens to be Jewish does not automatically transform his philanthropy into a Jewish religious act or make the cause an expression of Judaism.

    8. There is therefore a fundamental difference between what a Jew does and what Judaism teaches a Jew to do.

    9. If Judaism is invoked as the justification for an action, institution, movement, or charitable undertaking, then the relevant question must be whether that undertaking advances the obligations, values, and continuity of Torah and mitzvos — תורה ומצוות. Otherwise, we are simply attaching the word “Jewish” to the independent choices of individual Jews.

    10. A secular philanthropist named Goldstein or Goldberg who chooses to build an arts center is, in this respect, no different from any other philanthropist making the same choice. His ancestry does not make the building an expression of Torah Judaism. It represents his personal priorities.

    11. Judaism cannot logically be defined as everything that Jews happen to believe, finance, create, or support. Jews have held virtually every political, philosophical, economic, and cultural position imaginable. If every activity performed by a Jew becomes “Jewish,” then the word Judaism eventually loses any definite meaning.

    12. Judaism, in its traditional meaning, is rooted in Torah — תורה, its commandments, obligations, and the historical transmission of those teachings from one generation to the next. Individual Jews remain free to accept that inheritance, neglect it, or walk away from it. Their personal choices, however, do not redefine the inheritance itself.

    13. For an Orthodox Torah-observant Jew, Torah is not vague about the purpose and direction of his wealth. His money is not viewed merely as private property with which he occasionally performs acts of generosity. Wealth is a blessing — ברכה, and Torah establishes priorities for its charitable use: first strengthening those closest to him who are in need, then supporting poor and struggling Jews, supporting Torah institutions — מוסדות התורה, Torah education, and strengthening the observance and continuity of Torah and mitzvos — תורה ומצוות wherever help is needed.

    14. The principle is to identify weakness within the Jewish people and strengthen it according to the priorities established by halacha — הלכה. This does not mean that Judaism is communism or that a person’s wealth ceases to belong to him. A person retains ownership, responsibility, judgment, and free choice — בחירה חופשית.

    15. He may choose to spend his money differently. But once the question becomes, “What does Torah direct an observant Jew to do with the portion of his wealth devoted to philanthropy and tzedakah — צדקה?” Torah provides a hierarchy and direction. It is not simply whichever cause the individual personally finds attractive.

    16. The Torah structure begins with those closest to a person. His family responsibilities come first according to their needs and the halachic hierarchy. Parents, children, relatives, and those dependent upon him cannot simply be ignored while he searches for distant causes carrying greater prestige.

    17. If his immediate family is financially secure, the circle expands outward: poor Jews around him, the poor of his community and city, Jewish education, Torah institutions, and then Jews elsewhere, including Eretz Yisrael — ארץ ישראל. The principle of עניי עירך קודמין — the poor of your city take precedence expresses the basic concept that responsibility begins close to home and then expands outward.

    18. The purpose is not merely to relieve physical poverty. It is also to preserve and strengthen Jewish continuity, Torah learning, Torah observance, and the institutions that allow Jewish families and communities to continue living according to Torah and mitzvos.

    19. This creates a nagging intellectual conflict for a person who proudly says that his mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother were Jewish and therefore strongly identifies himself as Jewish, yet believes that contributing to the physical, cultural, or secular world automatically becomes an act of Judaism simply because he is the donor.

    20. Jewish ancestry may explain why the donor identifies himself as Jewish. It does not establish that every philanthropic decision he makes is therefore an expression of Judaism.

    21. If he chooses to build a museum, a university building, an arts center, a library, an environmental project, or to preserve animals or forests, that may be a worthy personal, civic, humanitarian, or cultural choice. He has every right to make that choice.

    22. But the Jewish name engraved on the building does not itself give the project Torah significance. From the Torah point of view, it remains a secular endeavor unless there is an independent Torah reason for supporting it. The identity of the donor does not change the nature of the activity.

    23. That is the crucial distinction: Jewish identity does not automatically turn a personal preference into a mitzvah — מצוה.

    24. If a person wishes to act specifically as a Jew and wishes to invoke Judaism as the justification for his philanthropy, then Torah must have a voice in determining where that philanthropy goes and what its priorities should be.

    25. Otherwise, the person is exercising ordinary personal freedom. He is spending his wealth according to his individual values, interests, emotions, ideology, or taste. He is entitled to do so, but it should not automatically be presented as Judaism.

    26. There is therefore no contradiction in saying that a Jew is completely free to support secular causes while also saying that those causes are not necessarily part of his Jewish religious obligation. Free choice and Torah obligation are two entirely different concepts.

    27. Torah does not confiscate a person’s wealth, nor does it eliminate his ability to decide how he wants to live. It establishes priorities and obligations. Whether the individual follows them remains part of his free choice.

    28. That is why wealth itself creates responsibility. A person blessed with significant resources possesses the ability to strengthen people, families, institutions, and communities that are weak. From a Torah perspective, the blessing carries responsibility with it.

    29. The Torah-oriented purpose of philanthropy is therefore not primarily prestige, public recognition, naming rights, or participation in fashionable causes. It is to direct resources toward the responsibilities Torah places before the individual: supporting those closest to him, strengthening poor and struggling Jews, sustaining Torah institutions, supporting Torah education, and helping preserve Torah and mitzvos for the next generation.

    30. A person’s Jewish ancestry is important because it connects him to a people and an extraordinary historical chain. But ancestry alone does not define the actions Judaism requires from him.

    31. This brings us back to the fundamental distinction. Judaism is not whatever Jews happen to do. Judaism is the Torah structure that tells Jews what Jewish life is supposed to be.

    32. Every individual remains free to accept that structure, partially follow it, reject it, or spend his wealth according to entirely different priorities. But intellectual clarity requires calling each thing by its proper name: personal philanthropy is personal philanthropy; Torah-directed tzedakah is Torah-directed tzedakah. They should not be confused simply because the person writing the check happens to be Jewish.



  • The world of kiruv (קירוב)—bringing non-religious Jews closer to Torah and a religious Jewish lifestyle—has changed considerably over the last sixty years.

    The objective has not changed. The generation has.

    The people being reached are different. The Orthodox community itself is different. The economic world is different. The people capable of financing kiruv are different. And perhaps most importantly, the question today should not simply be how to bring someone closer to Torah, but what happens to that person after we succeed.

    The Earlier Models of Kiruv

    Beginning roughly in the 1960s and 1970s, several distinct approaches to kiruv developed.

    One approach was strongly yeshiva-oriented. A non-religious Jew would first be introduced to basic Torah concepts and then gradually elevated toward serious Torah learning, including Gemara (גמרא). The objective was not simply greater observance. The hope was that the individual would eventually adopt a serious yeshiva and Torah-centered lifestyle.

    Another approach, represented by organizations such as Aish HaTorah, was broader. The objective was to bring a Jew closer to Torah at whatever level he was prepared to reach. There was not necessarily an expectation that every successful participant eventually look or live exactly the same way.

    If someone became sincerely observant while remaining more Modern Orthodox in lifestyle and appearance, that could also be considered a success.

    For decades, these approaches represented much of the structure of the kiruv world.

    But the Jewish world of 2026 is not the Jewish world of 1975.

    The Lakewood Kiruv Model of the 1980s, 1990s and Early 2000s

    To understand what should come next, it is important to understand how the relationship between Lakewood and kiruv developed during the late 1990s and all of 2000s.

    During those decades, a new generation of successful yeshivish businessmen was emerging. Many had spent significant years learning full-time before entering business and remained strongly connected to the yeshiva world. As they became financially successful, they wanted meaningful ways to participate in Torah and Jewish communal life beyond simply writing checks.

    The Natural Sponsors of Kiruv

    The natural Lakewood base supporting kiruv generally came from three groups: the young successful yeshivish businessman, the successful businessman who had himself once been non-religious or less religious and later moved to Lakewood, and the successful Orthodox businessman who grew up out of town in a broader environment and later settled in Lakewood.

    These people were particularly suited to supporting kiruv because they had financial resources while also being comfortable interacting with Jews outside the traditional yeshiva environment. They could understand both worlds.

    BMG itself serves a different primary purpose as a major institution of advanced Torah learning. The practical financial and personal support for ongoing kiruv therefore naturally developed among these successful members of the broader Lakewood community.

    Kiruv provided such an opportunity.

    A successful businessman could travel to Israel as part of a kiruv program, meet non-religious Jewish students, learn with them, spend Shabbos with them and develop personal relationships. Several times during the year, groups could also come to Lakewood for a Shabbaton, where they experienced Shabbos meals, Torah learning and the atmosphere of an intensely religious community.

    This accomplished two things simultaneously.

    For the non-religious participant, it provided exposure to serious Torah life. For the successful Lakewood businessman, it created a meaningful personal outlet through which he could become directly involved in helping another Jew rather than limiting his contribution to financial support.

    But there was an important distinction that perhaps was not always fully considered.

    Lakewood was an extraordinary place to expose someone to Torah. That did not automatically make Lakewood the natural place in which to cultivate a newly religious young adult over many years.

    Jerusalem historically offered something different. Religious and non-religious Jews lived in much greater proximity. A secular Jew becoming religious did not necessarily have to cross immediately from one completely separate social universe into another. There were yeshivas, neighborhoods and institutions specifically accustomed to people moving gradually from secular life toward greater observance.

    Lakewood developed differently.

    It is an extraordinarily concentrated Torah community, but precisely because of that strength it can be difficult for a young secular Jew to enter. Much of the social environment consists of people who were born into observant families, attended yeshivas from childhood and understand the community’s language, expectations and social codes instinctively.

    A baal teshuvah (בעל תשובה) who has already spent many years in yeshiva can certainly enter that world. Some arrive in Lakewood in their thirties or forties, already married with large families, after having spent years developing within serious yeshiva environments. By that point they understand the culture and can function within it.

    That is very different from bringing a twenty-three-year-old secular college graduate directly into Lakewood and expecting the surrounding community automatically to become his natural environment.

    He may admire what he sees without knowing how to belong to it.

    That distinction becomes even more important when dealing with young singles. They do not yet have spouses, established families, permanent rabbanim, professional networks or their own social infrastructure. They are being asked not merely to adopt mitzvos (מצוות), but potentially to enter an entire community whose assumptions and social language were developed by people who have lived within it from birth.

    Therefore, the old model of occasional Lakewood Shabbatonim should not automatically be confused with the requirements of building a permanent Lakewood kiruv infrastructure.

    A Shabbaton can inspire someone.

    A weekend can demonstrate the beauty of Shabbos.

    A successful businessman can establish a meaningful relationship with a participant.

    But creating a life is something entirely different.

    If Lakewood is going to become a serious destination for young Jews becoming religious, it cannot be treated merely as an interesting kiruv project or a meaningful outlet for wealthy businessmen who want to do good.

    It has to be built deliberately.

    In that sense, the model should perhaps borrow something from the Jerusalem experience: an environment where Jews at different stages of religious development can interact naturally, where the newly observant person does not immediately feel that everyone around him has been living the same lifestyle since birth, and where growth can occur gradually without requiring immediate cultural assimilation.

    Creating such an environment inside Lakewood would require intentional planning.

    It would require appropriate rabbanim and educators. It would require educated professional mentors. It would require housing and social infrastructure. It would require employment and career connections. It would require Shabbos and Yom Tov families. It would require an appropriate environment for singles and eventually for young married couples.

    Most importantly, it would require recognizing that kiruv cannot remain a hobby.

    For the donor, a trip to Israel or a Shabbaton several times a year can be tremendously meaningful. But for the young Jew whose entire identity and future are changing, this is not an extracurricular activity.

    It is his life.

    If Lakewood wants to cultivate such people locally, the objective therefore cannot simply be to reproduce the old Shabbaton model on a larger scale.

    The objective would have to be much more ambitious:

    to create within Lakewood a serious, permanent and professionally organized environment where a Jew coming from the secular world can gradually build a Torah life without being expected to arrive already knowing how to belong.

    That would transform Lakewood kiruv from an occasional encounter into something closer to a Jerusalem-style pathway—adapted to the particular strengths and realities of Lakewood.

    And that distinction is essential to understanding what the next generation of kiruv would actually require.

    The Instagram and TikTok Generation

    Today’s young Jews have grown up with Instagram, TikTok and unlimited access to information.

    They are often highly educated while simultaneously being extraordinarily exposed. Before developing even a basic understanding of Judaism, they may already have encountered virtually every philosophy, religion, political ideology and lifestyle imaginable.

    That exposure creates tremendous distraction, but it can also create a search for meaning.

    There are young Jews who genuinely want to know what Judaism says. They want to understand Torah, Jewish identity, purpose and mitzvos (מצוות). They are not necessarily rejecting the professional or modern world. They are asking whether Judaism can provide something deeper within their lives.

    That requires a different conversation.

    A twenty-seven-year-old who has finished college, graduate school or a master’s degree and is entering medicine, healthcare, finance, technology, law or another profession is very different from the eighteen-year-old backpacker who walked into a yeshiva in Israel forty years ago.

    The kiruv structure has to recognize that difference.

    The Orthodox World Has Also Changed

    The population doing the kiruv has changed as well.

    Over the last generation, a financially powerful Orthodox business community has developed, particularly in New York and Lakewood.

    There are now substantial numbers of Torah-observant businessmen in their forties, fifties and sixties who have built successful businesses in healthcare, real estate, financial services, software, technology and numerous other industries.

    This has created a different model of the successful religious Jew.

    Many are deeply committed to Torah, yeshivas and mitzvos while simultaneously participating fully in the modern business world.

    They may have large homes. They travel. They ski. They take vacations. They dress differently from the stereotypical yeshiva businessman of thirty or forty years ago and may be considerably less uncomfortable displaying financial success.

    They are products of the Torah world without necessarily withdrawing from the professional world.

    For the educated secular Jew considering a religious life, that can be an important model.

    It demonstrates that serious Torah observance and serious professional ambition do not necessarily contradict one another.

    Who Exactly Are We Trying to Bring?

    Before discussing programs, buildings or fundraising, however, there is a much more fundamental question:

    Who exactly do we want to come?

    Is the target someone who is completely non-religious but intellectually interested in Judaism?

    Is it someone who has already independently become somewhat observant but has no community or direction?

    Is it someone who spent six months or a year in an Israeli yeshiva, became inspired, returned to America and is now floating between two worlds?

    Is it an alumnus of Aish HaTorah or another kiruv institution who wants to continue growing but does not necessarily want to become a conventional full-time yeshiva student?

    These are very different people requiring very different programs.

    This creates a fundamental strategic question for Torah Links or any similar organization:

    Do you want to be a general store, or do you want to be a specialty store with a specific direction?

    A general kiruv organization can welcome everyone. It can provide Shabbos experiences, lectures, classes, trips, social events and introductions to Torah.

    There is tremendous value in that.

    But once an organization wants to produce deeper and longer-term results, it has to decide what type of person it is particularly equipped to develop.

    The Lakewood opportunity may be precisely in becoming more specialized.

    Who Should Represent Torah?

    Once we decide whom we want to reach, the next question is equally important:

    Who should represent Torah to that person?

    For an educated college graduate or professional, the front-line leadership should include people who themselves have substantial secular education and professional experience.

    They could be established or retired physicians, lawyers, financial professionals, businessmen, academics and other accomplished professionals who are articulate and worldly while simultaneously deeply Orthodox and completely committed to Judaism.

    A role model should represent a life that the participant can realistically imagine himself living.

    A twenty-eight-year-old graduate of an elite university entering medicine, finance or technology may have tremendous respect for a traditional yeshiva scholar. But that does not necessarily mean he can envision becoming him.

    There may be a cultural disconnect when the primary person representing Torah has little secular education, limited professional experience and little familiarity with the world from which the participant comes.

    That does not diminish the importance of the traditional rebbe or talmid chacham (תלמיד חכם). Quite the opposite. A serious program requires genuine Torah authority.

    But there is a distinction between Torah authority and front-line mentorship.

    Rabbanim should establish the Torah standards and answer serious religious questions. Professionals who have successfully lived in both worlds can become mentors and role models.

    Imagine a retired physician learning Gemara with a medical student.

    Imagine an experienced attorney mentoring a law-school graduate.

    Imagine a successful financial professional learning with someone beginning a career on Wall Street.

    The profession establishes a common language and initial credibility. Torah creates the deeper relationship.

    If the participant ultimately decides that he wants complete immersion in the traditional full-time yeshiva world, excellent institutions already exist in Israel and America for precisely that purpose.

    He should be encouraged toward them.

    But that does not have to be the only destination of kiruv.

    The Lakewood Model

    There is an underserved population of educated Jewish men in their twenties and thirties who already have some serious interest in Torah but have not found their permanent place.

    Some have returned from Israeli yeshivas.

    Some have completed college or graduate school.

    Some are beginning careers in healthcare, medicine, finance, technology, real estate, law or business.

    They are no longer complete beginners, but neither are they fully integrated members of an Orthodox community.

    Lakewood possesses something unusual that could serve this population: an enormous Torah infrastructure existing alongside an increasingly sophisticated business community.

    Those two assets could be connected.

    A participant could spend a year studying Torah seriously for approximately half the day while spending the other half working or training within an actual business.

    Local Orthodox businessmen would then become part of the kiruv infrastructure itself.

    Instead of merely writing checks, they could sponsor participants, provide internships, subsidize employment, offer mentorship and introduce participants to professional networks.

    A healthcare businessman could mentor someone entering healthcare. A financial professional could work with someone interested in financial services. Similar relationships could exist in real estate, technology, accounting, law and other industries.

    The participant would encounter Torah not merely as something taught in a classroom but as something lived by successful adults.

    A One- or Two-Year Path

    The first year could emphasize Torah foundations, Hebrew skills, Gemara (גמרא), halachah (הלכה), hashkafah (השקפה) and practical Jewish life while maintaining limited professional employment or training.

    The second year could gradually increase professional involvement while maintaining a serious daily Torah-learning schedule.

    This addresses a question that inevitably confronts the educated person becoming religious:

    What happens to my career?

    The answer should not necessarily be that he must choose between the two.

    For the appropriate person, Torah development and professional development can occur simultaneously.

    Others will discover that they genuinely want full-time yeshiva learning. They should have a clear pathway into an appropriate established yeshiva in Lakewood, Israel or elsewhere.

    Whether Torah Links itself should operate every component is another question.

    Perhaps its function should be identifying, recruiting and developing participants while partnering with existing yeshivas and businesses for the specialized components.

    An organization does not have to own everything in order to create the pathway.

    Kiruv Cannot End With Inspiration

    A successful Shabbos, lecture, trip or inspirational weekend can open a door.

    But Monday morning still comes.

    The young person wakes up and asks:

    What do I actually do with my life now?

    He needs Torah.

    He needs a rebbe.

    He needs friends.

    He needs community.

    He needs a livelihood.

    Eventually he wants marriage and a family.

    Kiruv therefore has to build a bridge rather than merely an entrance.

    The bridge must take someone from college into Torah, from Torah into community, and from community into a productive Jewish adult life.

    A Different Fundraising Model

    This approach also changes fundraising.

    Today’s successful Orthodox businessmen understand investment, management, accountability and measurable results.

    Instead of simply asking a businessman to sponsor another kiruv event, ask him to help develop an actual person.

    His contribution does not have to consist exclusively of money.

    He can provide an internship.

    He can subsidize a salary.

    He can provide several hours of mentorship every month.

    He can make professional introductions.

    Eventually, perhaps, he can provide employment.

    The donor then becomes a participant in the kiruv process rather than merely its financier.

    Instead of saying, “Give $100,000 to kiruv,” an organization could say:

    Support five young Jewish professionals for one year. Fund their learning stipends. Subsidize their employment. Provide mentors. Measure where they are after twelve months and again after twenty-four months.

    That is a very different fundraising proposition.

    But What Happens When Kiruv Succeeds?

    There is one final issue that may be more important than everything else.

    What happens when kiruv actually works?

    A non-religious young man becomes observant.

    A non-religious young woman becomes observant.

    Eventually they may marry people from similar backgrounds.

    Everyone celebrates the success.

    But then something becomes apparent:

    They frequently do not have an Orthodox family behind them.

    A person born into the Orthodox community possesses an enormous infrastructure that he may barely notice because it has always existed.

    Parents.

    Siblings.

    Grandparents.

    Cousins.

    In-laws.

    Family friends.

    These relationships provide Shabbos and Yom Tov invitations, advice, babysitting, introductions, jobs, emergency assistance, financial help and countless other forms of support.

    A newly religious couple may have virtually none of this.

    Friends and neighbors are important, but friends and neighbors are not always family.

    When everyone leaves for Yom Tov to visit parents and grandparents, the difference becomes particularly visible.

    Who Becomes Their Family?

    This may be one of the most overlooked questions in kiruv.

    Are we responsible only for bringing someone into Torah, or do we assume some responsibility for what happens afterward?

    Historically, supporting Torah could be relatively straightforward for a successful American businessman. He could support a yeshiva in Israel, visit the institution, meet the students and feel that he was participating in Torah.

    Kiruv brought the responsibility much closer to home.

    Organizations such as Torah Links created an opportunity for successful religious Jews to do something directly for their non-religious Jewish brothers and sisters.

    But once it works, the question becomes:

    What is the next step?

    If we persuade someone that Torah is his home, there has to be serious thought about whether we are prepared to help provide that home.

    That does not mean supporting someone indefinitely or creating dependency.

    It means recognizing that someone without an Orthodox family may require assistance that someone born into the community receives naturally.

    He may need help obtaining his first serious job.

    If he cannot initially command a sufficient salary, perhaps a business or donor needs to subsidize part of his employment while he develops professionally.

    He may need housing assistance.

    He may need career guidance.

    He needs Shabbos and Yom Tov invitations.

    He may need help navigating dating and marriage.

    After marriage, the young couple may need help establishing themselves.

    Most importantly, they need permanent relationships.

    They should not disappear from an organization’s attention once they are counted as a successful kiruv story.

    A Community Within the Community

    There also needs to be serious thought about where these families will live and how they will integrate.

    A newly observant husband and wife can find it difficult simply to move into an established Orthodox neighborhood where everyone else already has twenty or thirty years of family and social connections.

    Perhaps there needs to be a deliberate community within the larger community.

    Not a permanent baal teshuvah enclave that separates newcomers from everyone else.

    Rather, a landing place.

    A concentration of families with similar backgrounds, surrounded and supported by established Orthodox families who consciously accept responsibility for helping them integrate.

    The objective should ultimately be integration, not separation.

    But integration takes time.

    Someone arriving without parents, siblings, cousins and lifelong friends should not be expected simply to manufacture that infrastructure overnight.

    From Kiruv Organization to Family

    This may ultimately be the missing piece.

    The first generation of kiruv concentrated primarily on bringing the Jew in.

    The next generation must also ask how to build the Jew a life once he comes in.

    That means Torah learning.

    It means rabbanim.

    It means professional mentorship.

    It means employment.

    It means marriage.

    It means housing.

    It means friendships.

    It means community.

    Sometimes it will mean financial assistance.

    But above everything else, it means relationships that continue for years rather than months.

    If Torah Links or another kiruv organization says to a non-religious Jew:

    “Come. Become part of our family.”

    Then success creates a responsibility.

    We have to be prepared to become family for him.

    That may be the real next generation of kiruv.

    Not simply inspiring another Jew to become religious, but helping him construct a stable Torah life in which he and his children eventually no longer feel that they arrived from somewhere outside.

    The ultimate measurement should therefore not simply be how many people attended an event, how many went to Israel, or even how many became observant.

    Look twenty years later.

    Did he remain connected to Torah?

    Did she remain connected?

    Did they build a stable marriage?

    Did they develop a livelihood?

    Did they become part of a community?

    Did they raise children who naturally understand themselves as part of the Torah world?

    If the answer is yes, then kiruv has accomplished something considerably greater than producing another religious individual.

    It has created another Jewish family.

    And perhaps that should be the real measure of success.